Yesterday I went to my first MS event at the Neuroscience Group in Neenah. It was a beautiful new building and I was nervous going in and not knowing what to expect. It was actually a "lecture" set up and the presenter was a female Neurologist that works out of that location. (Side note: hubby's neurologist rotates out of Neenah as well....one week in Appleton and one week in Neenah)
The lecture was titled "The Big Picture" and she went through all of the basic information that is multiple sclerosis. As I have stated in past posts, it is being assumed until proven otherwise that Hubby has RRMS which is Relapsing-Remitting. This means that when he has an "attack" he is suppose to recover at a minimum of 80%. Since the optic neuritis is considered his first measurable attack, they won't be able to diagnose any differently until something would change. There are 3 other versions of MS that unfortunately could be a possibility. The othe 3 all involve a worsening progression so we aren't focusing on that part right now.
I learned that the lesions created by MS can also present on the spinal cord and not just the brain. This I didn't know before and realistically it scares the crap out of me. It's logical once you think about it but I don't have any desire to think about it!
I had one of my girlfriends with me for support but also to continue her own education on the disease. I will never forget her words.....when the presentation ended, she looked over with a straight face and said "you processed all of that information in a matter of a month?" My response was "no, 2 weeks actually." She couldn't believe how much there was to take in.
The part that I think hit home the most was again the fact that men that are diagnosed are generally more severe. 1 in 3 people that are diagnosed are men. 1 in 3......my husband is in that percentile and I am not liking the numbers. :/
Once the presentation was done, the neurologist opened up the floor to questions. The first question that came through was regarding the article that ran in the Green Bay Press Gazette and the Appleton Post Crescent on Tuesday November 12th. To give you a background, the article was about an Appleton man that was diagnosed with MS in 2004 and it completely deflated him (his own words). He started a clinical trial of the drug Alemtuzumab in 2010 after continuing to worsen and the article goes on to say that it has been a miracle for him. He has officially gone from 18 lesions to 0 and feels like a whole new man. It's a very inspiring article and I think it is absolutely inspiring that he feels so great. My take when reading the article was that something seemed too good to be true.
So back to the neurologist answering questions. The first question was about the article and whether or not she had read it, and if so, what her take was on it. The neurologist answered that she had read it, and while it was a greatly inspiring article, she was disheartened that the newspaper did not provide full information regarding the trial. I learned that it is helping some, but really hurting others. The side effects are so severe that people are wishing they never did it. The list was everything from kidney failure to lymphatic cancer. Cancer?! Really?! Here the article was light hearted and he couldn't praise the drug companies more because it has basically cured him but others are either dying or dead. WOW that's a drastic swing
It seems everyone has read this article. Hubby and I both received emails with the link and someone in my office even brought me the article knowing I don't get the paper during the week. From what I understand, the FDA was going to hear information and testimonies this week regarding the new "wonder drug" so we will see what happens. I personally know I am not going to suggest it but it's not my decision. I leave all treatment options up to my hubby and provide support.
After the lecture, we had the option to talk to the neurologist personally. I was struggling at that point to be honest, but I had more questions.
My first one was about the Copaxone injections and how long it generally takes for patients to start feeling better. My balloon was further diflated when she told me that Copaxone is not designed to make someone feel better. It's sole purpose is to prevent as many further lesions as possible. Really? I am sorry, then why is he on this one?! Doesn't make him feel better? Awesome........
She then said that it generally takes about 6 months for the medicine to fully build in his system and start doing its job. So, she basically told me that he's not going to feel better because of the medicine and it's not expected to really fully work until March of 2014. Talk about take the wind out of your sails.....my heart broke
I took a deep breath and then asked about the reactions he's having at the injection site and the symptoms that are presenting now. She said that if his body is not adapting to the daily injections that we need to call the nurse back in to show her what's happening. If it continues to get more severe, starts a black spot in the middle where the needle went in or the bump starts to depress in the middle, then we really need to worry........check
The symptoms.....balance, the continued eye, his hand eye coordination, etc can all be due to the optic neuritis or can be new symptoms. She couldn't give me a straight answer without reading his file and seeing his MRI results. I did however find out that the new studies are finding that instead of just the mylin sheath being damaged and causing the lesion it is now being found that it can also be damage to the nerve itself. They are discovering that if the attack is severe enough that it's basically like cutting a wire straight through and not just stripping it as once originally thought. This left me with more questions but I honestly couldn't take anymore. If my girlfriend had not been there with me I think I would have started to cry when I got into my truck.
I hate feeling helpless! I hate continuing to have questions and having to learn that the answer seems to consistently be "time will tell" NO! My husband is 32, almost 33 years old and if you are telling me that I have to just sit back and accept the course we are on I am the type that will dig my heels in. Don't tell me that I have to accept the path because I will tell you that all paths can be rewritten if you try. So frustrating......
Of course when all this is happening he is out of town for work and it's leaving me to try and communicate all of this over the phone. Yuck
Oh! Before I forget! The MS Walk in Appleton has been set for April 27th 2014! Are you going to walk with us? I hope to have the team set shortly and will post the information as to how to register for Team Tinman :)
Thank you! We love all of you with everything in us and your support is amazing! Thank you thank you thank you from the bottom of our hearts
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